Controversy

Already there is a little controversy concerning "Family" as many expect that the film can be a one-size-fits-all. As much as a filmmaker hopes that the universal themes she puts in her film resonates with all in the world, they won't. I appreciate the candor of many who have approached me and respect the feelings of all but "Family," though showcasing, predominantly, women of color, is a racially inclusive film. It was written as such and not in affected way, but, quite organically. There is an interracial love story that I am proud of; men are in this mostly lesbian tale; finally, "Family" is inclusive of all orientations and gender nuances, as well as skin tones and body sizes.

Some would seek to have this be an homage to black women exclusively, but it isn't entirely. I do believe, though, that "Family" should receive kudos for presenting the lives of the marginalized: women period and particularly women of color and, also, in giving a far more authentic portrait of their lives. I love controversy like the next filmmaker, but I just want to make sure that people don't reject the film before they experience it--then afterwards, throw stones or flowers or whatever you have handy.

"Family" Film Festivals '09

Well, "Family" begins its official run of film festivals across the world. It is always so exciting and rewarding for me as a filmmaker to visit cities and sit with people as they take in the project. The Q&A's are the truest barometer of your film's success--not the critics. It is during the festival that you get the critical feedback directly and indirectly. Directly by the reaction of the audience and later there actual statements. Also--the secret is to sit in the back and see what people honestly do. I've had the pleasure of seeing people witness "Family" reluctantly leave to go to the restroom and actual semi-sprint back into the theater, as if not to miss anything. I've seen people return time and time again to view the film in its entirety. I see that as the film's success; the answer to how people enjoy it.

All is not perfect in festival land; not every audience will love, like, or tolerate your work, but at least the work is in the world for one to have an opinion on. To me doing the work is the greatest achievement. Also, creating an event for the people to come together to enjoy or trigger debate is an accomplishment in itself. However, the downside is some potentially callous critical reviews that I believe are far more severe on works on women in general and works about black women specifically; these works are easy target because they don't always have advocates and must struggle with lesser production than their male counterparts--less funds available for work that is not seen as commercially viable. I definitely feel that the tide is changing, but until then, let's cross our fingers and hope that those with a critical voice can see what the film meant to be; see how radical and hopeful it is for women, particularly those gay-identified. Regardless, "Family" comes into the world, and she's ready!